Fw: A131743 intumathi shanmugam psychoanalytic teori

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 Selamat sejahtera diucapkan kepada semua.ini ialah jurnal keempat yang akan saya tulis.Walaupun dah beberapa kali saya telah menulis jurnal bagi zt pengurusan emosi tetapi saya tidak pernah jemu menulis jurnal.Ini kerana tiap-tiap minggu saya pelajari benda baru yang membuka minda saya lebih luas.Cara penyampaian kuliah yang begitu menarik oleh En Zamri memang harus dipuji danberjaya menarik perhatian para pelajar sekalian.Saya ingin mengambil peluang ini untuk mengucapkan selamat hari raya kepada yang menyambut hari raya.Pada 24 Ogos ini saya telah menghadiri kuliah di dewan kuliah satu pada pukul dua petang.Hari ini berbeza dengan  hari-hari yang sebelumnya.Hari ini tiada kuliah seperti biasa.Bagi menggantikan kuliah ,beliau telah memberi tugasan yang saya merasakan lebih menarikterdapat tiga tugasan yang diberikan oleh beliau.Saya tertanya-tanya dalam hati apa yang akan diberikan untuk dilakukan.Tugasan pertama yang diberikan adalah melihat slide-slide yang berkaitan dengan psychoanalytic dan melihat video yang ditayangkan dan cuba mengaitkan teori dan emosi.h Tugasan yang kedua ialah membuat soal selidik MBTi.

                Yang ketiga ialah membuat soal selidik lima teori besar[bifg five theory].Teori psychoanalytic dapat mentafsir emosi-emosi yang dialami dalam situasi ttertentuKalau kita melihat perkataan psychoanalytic ,kalau dipisahkan psycho bermaksud ememosi dan analytic bermaksud tafsirContohnya kita mengambil sairik –lirik lagu dalam video tersebut menyayat  hati saya.Betapa sedihnya lagu tersebut.u peristiwa di mana seorang telah kehilangan computer riba masa nak pergi temu duga..Dia telah menyimpan semua data yang diminta dalamkomputer riba tersebut.Hanya tinggal setengah jam ontuk temu duga bermula.Kalu kita melihat secara terperinci,dia berasal dari keluarga miskin dan ialah satu-satunya harapan bagi keluarganya.Dah berpuluh-puluh temu duga yang telah dihadiri tetapi semuanya gagal.Bayangkan emosi watak tersebut pada masa ini.Macam manakah dia akan berdepan dengan ahli-ahli keluarganya yang sedang kebuluran tanpa mendapat kerja ini? Wajahnya pada saat ini akan menunjukkan perasaan kesal dan gelisah yang teramat sangat.Apakan daya dia sedangkan semua telah ditakdirkan oleh Tuhan.

                Dalam pengalaman hidup saya,ada satu peristiwa yang tidak dapat dilupakan sehigga hari iniKadang-kadang emosi itu akan terjadidengan pantasnya tanpa disedari kerana situasi yang di luar dugaan..Pada masa kecil dulu,saya telah bermain bersembunyi –sembunyi denga adik saya. Kami telah berlari sampai tiba di suatu dusun.Oleh sebab tidak mahu kalah, saya telah memanjat sebuah pokok yang rending.Saya telah duduk di atas sebuah ranting danmengintai pergerakan adik saya. Alangkah malangnya nasib aku.Saya telah jatuh dari pokok tersebut apabila ranting itu patah tiba-tiba.Saya menjerit ketakutan dan memejam mata kerana amat takut. Kaki saya patah dan adik saya berlari menuju kea rah saya.Dia mengatakan tidak pernah melihat saya begitu takut.Saya pun tidak dapat mengawal emosi saya pada saat genting.

                Saya telah dapat  INFP dalam soal selidik yang dilakukanIa bermakna saya ialah seorang idealistic. Menurut laman web yang diberikan oleh En Zamri ia bemaksud begini:

As an INFP, your primary mode of living is focused internally, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit into your personal value system. Your secondary mode is external, where you take things in primarily via your intuition.

INFPs, more than other iNtuitive Feeling types, are focused on making the world a better place for people. Their primary goal is to find out their meaning in life. What is their purpose? How can they best serve humanity in their lives? They are idealists and perfectionists, who drive themselves hard in their quest for achieving the goals they have identified for themselves

INFPs are highly intuitive about people. They rely heavily on their intuitions to guide them, and use their discoveries to constantly search for value in life. They are on a continuous mission to find the truth and meaning underlying things. Every encounter and every piece of knowledge gained gets sifted through the INFP's value system, and is evaluated to see if it has any potential to help the INFP define or refine their own path in life. The goal at the end of the path is always the same - the INFP is driven to help people and make the world a better place.

Generally thoughtful and considerate, INFPs are good listeners and put people at ease. Although they may be reserved in expressing emotion, they have a very deep well of caring and are genuinely interested in understanding people. This sincerity is sensed by others, making the INFP a valued friend and confidante. An INFP can be quite warm with people he or she knows well.

INFPs do not like conflict, and go to great lengths to avoid it. If they must face it, they will always approach it from the perspective of their feelings. In conflict situations, INFPs place little importance on who is right and who is wrong. They focus on the way that the conflict makes them feel, and indeed don't really care whether or not they're right. They don't want to feel badly. This trait sometimes makes them appear irrational and illogical in conflict situations. On the other hand, INFPs make very good mediators, and are typically good at solving other people's conflicts, because they intuitively understand people's perspectives and feelings, and genuinely want to help them.

INFPs are flexible and laid-back, until one of their values is violated. In the face of their value system being threatened, INFPs can become aggressive defenders, fighting passionately for their cause. When an INFP has adopted a project or job which they're interested in, it usually becomes a "cause" for them. Although they are not detail-oriented individuals, they will cover every possible detail with determination and vigor when working for their "cause".

When it comes to the mundane details of life maintenance, INFPs are typically completely unaware of such things. They might go for long periods without noticing a stain on the carpet, but carefully and meticulously brush a speck of dust off of their project booklet.

INFPs do not like to deal with hard facts and logic. Their focus on their feelings and the Human Condition makes it difficult for them to deal with impersonal judgment. They don't understand or believe in the validity of impersonal judgment, which makes them naturally rather ineffective at using it. Under stress, it's not uncommon for INFPs to mis-use hard logic in the heat of anger, throwing out fact after (often inaccurate) fact in an emotional outburst.

INFPs have very high standards and are perfectionists. Consequently, they are usually hard on themselves, and don't give themselves enough credit. INFPs may have problems working on a project in a group, because their standards are likely to be higher than other members' of the group. In group situations, they may have a "control" problem. The INFP needs to work on balancing their high ideals with the requirements of every day living. Without resolving this conflict, they will never be happy with themselves, and they may become confused and paralyzed about what to do with their lives.

                Dengan ini saya dapat mengenal pasti personality saya ecara lebih mendalam.Saya telah mendapat openness dalam lagi satu soal selidik yang dilakukan.Sekian.